Embracing Uncertainty: Turning Doubt into Hope and Confidence with Sherianna Boyle
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-Uncertainty.
We’ve all felt it within our day-to-day lives. It manifests itself in a variety of ways, such as feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed due to the lack of control we have over certain situations. Whether swimming in the mixed sea of thoughts and feelings as we awaiting the results of a health diagnosis, or anxiously hanging to the hopes of a job offer
We can experience uncertainty; throughout our lives - It surfaces within our relationships, our finances, our job security - or, at a larger scale, with the global economy, politics, and our environment. A natural part of life; uncertainty offers us the opportunity to adapt, learn, and grow - if we embrace it, uncertainty can lead us to personal development, and ultimately - our best selves.
In life, we all face moments of uncertainty - they shake our very foundations and often challenge us to our core. For those who receive a cancer diagnosis, this uncertainty can be overwhelming and all-consuming, leading to doubt, fear, and despair. But amidst this darkness, there are heroes who rise to the challenge, who find a way to turn doubt into hope and uncertainty into confidence.
Emma is a young woman who was diagnosed with cancer. After her diagnosis, she began to doubt herself and her ability to beat cancer and live a normal life. She began to wonder - what if the doctors were wrong, or if the cancer was going to kill her. As child - She had lost her mother to cancer. Now with her own diagnosis - those all to painful memories…came rushing back.
Emma turned to her family and friends - and she discovered, that through their empathy and caring concern - she was better able to uncover the meaning hidden within her feelings, and soon, Emma realize that she could beat cancer. And she realized that her job as a mother took priority over everything else.
When faced with doubt, it's important to shift the perspective from hesitant resistance - to natural curiosity. This mindset allows us to explore different aspects of ourselves and fuels personal transformation. By accepting uncertainty, we move beyond fear and hesitation, allowing us to confidently pursue our goals and desires.
- Are you ready to unlock the power of resilience and positive transformation?
Author, and Energy in Action Coach, Sherianna Boyle is here today to show us how to fully embrace the unpredictability of life with confidence, ease, and flow - and use it to align our values, regulate our emotions and create sustainable growth.
Tune in to find out how, on the Light Inside.
Buy Sherianna’s latest book, “Energy in Action: The Power of Emotions and Intuition to Cultivate Peace and Freedom” released May 2nd, 2023.
In this episode, you will be able to:
- Transform doubt into a strong sense of confidence by comprehending spiritual laws.
- Enhance your manifesting capabilities by honing your emotions and intuition.
- Foster personal growth and energy alignment through the power of emotional vulnerability.
- Build a robust sense of self-worth by mastering the law of giving and receiving.
- Achieve manifestation success by understanding and aligning with universal laws.
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Dear doers, givers, and over thinkers.
Today, we're going to learn how to step into the uncertainty in
our lives and create hope amidst the Despair.
And here's the thing, it has nothing to do with adding more
to our plates. She Rihanna beating through your
book energy and action. I couldn't help but notice how
this reminded me of Surfing seeing waves, as nothing more
than fluid energy. I'm going to let that be our Set
up today if that's cool with you.
So today I'd like to relate our conversation to the theme of
Doubt, how we often limit the flow of that energy in some
regards and how this surfaces throughout our lives doubt in
essence is stuck or resistive. Energy.
Would you not agree in some regards?
I think a lot of times with manifesting, we are skimming the
surface and energy and action is my death.
Definition of manifesting. What I have found is again we
often skim the surface and what you're saying is let's go a
little bit deeper and let's have a conversation about what kind
of comes up for people. Now, there's a few different
perspectives about doubt, doubt is according to the spiritual
laws, which energy and action is based on 13 spiritual laws.
We are never stock, right? So the law of vibration teaches
us staff and I've been working with energy and particularly
emotions. So, you know, you and I have
spoken about my previous books, my emotional detox book series
and I wrote three books on emotional detox and developed a
system called cleanse, which helps people process what they
feel at the end of writing those books.
I realized that the spiritual laws cause when I started to
dive into them, are designed to teach us how to move our
emotions. That's what I believe.
So, when you talk about doubt, you're talking about a reaction,
right? So I'm going to be going between
my emotional detox hat, my energy, and action hat.
Doubt, can either be an emotion or a reaction.
I'm going to slide it into the reactive category because what
happens from an energy and actions perspective is now your
energy. Starting to slow down, right?
It's now it's becoming a little bit sluggish.
At least it appears that way. But when you go to the spiritual
laws of the universe, particularly the law of
vibration, it tells us our energies never stock, right?
Energy is always in motion, it never stops.
You can't get rid of energy but you can transform it, right?
So, essentially, the doubt is something coming up in.
And whoever's experiencing it when I say to be cleared.
So when we cleared out, we're not getting rid of it per se.
We are actually increasing the energy and action the motion.
So now it's transforming into something new, which could be
hope it could be confidence, it could be my guess, it's probably
confidence. That's looking to emerge in
someone if they're experiencing a lot of Doubt.
What they're on the cusp of Is having a breakthrough of maybe,
perhaps really believing in themselves, really starting to
stand in their power. Really starting to be
wholeheartedly in Mind, Body Spirit, aligned with what their
purposes and the spiritual laws. Teach us that now that's
difficult to do on a vision board, right?
So this is like going beyond your vision vision boards are
great for self-reflection kind Getting your ideas on the page
for manifesting. What is it?
You're interested in, but I find their limited because they're
too based in the physical whereas manifesting as a
practice in the non physical. Meaning it's a practice of
really you know, what are we all here for?
And it's to transform some of those barriers so that we can
all feel a sense of Peace, we can all feel a sense of freedom
and I think that's really what the bigger picture is.
So I always say go for the confidence, go for the piece, go
for the freedom and know that as you cultivate that energy,
everything else is going to be filled in for you.
So if it's the prosperity, if it's the career, if it's the
health, if it's the loved one, whatever it is that you're
looking to manifest. Don't limit Yourself by focusing
on the end point because so much of manifesting does that go
beyond that and the that will fill it in for us.
So for doubt, Go for the confidence, go for the
vulnerability because that's what doubts about it's about
resisting vulnerability. In my opinion, from that
respective interrelating therefore inner, we're both
working to get that same alignment doubt on an emotional
level is in decision between maybe perhaps belief and
disbelief in this case seeking certainty.
Yeah you and I both frequently posit how uncertainty Be
effective in serving us as an in-depth, come when it's
processed, right? When it's when it's left,
unprocessed, yeah, you're going to suffer, right?
But if we give ourselves permission to process these
vibrations, let's just say, call uncertainty, is a vibration
that's just looking to move. That's all it's looking to do.
It's not looking to trip you up. It needs movement and needs that
energy and action. And now, That's what the
practices in the book. Give people this draws me up to
our first question. How might we utilize the
knowledge in your book to ride the wave of curiosity carrying
us past our various experiences of Doubt?
Might be a big one. Yeah.
So, there's a couple things that I think will help people in
terms of manifesting and again, energy and action is how I
Define. A fasting.
That's how the title, the book, and energy and action is
emotions and intuitions and flow, right?
So we have to go beyond focusing on thoughts for so long, so many
of the teachings around the Law of Attraction, really change
your thoughts, change your thoughts, change your thoughts,
which boggled me and frustrated me at the same time, because
I've been teaching about emotions for so long.
And I know when you focus on your thoughts, you could be
focusing on a trigger. Yeah.
Right. And I'm like I can't do it.
I'm sorry. I'm like I really want to be on
board and a team player here, but I can't manifest by focusing
on changing my thoughts. I'm just trying to change a
trigger triggers are there because they're memories and
they're looking to be resolved and they're looking to be healed
and transformed. So I say let that go focus on
the emotions, right? Which is energy in motion.
And then when your emotions begin to process that
automatically kicks in your intuition, which is your
intuitive guidance. And so couple key things that
this, I think energy and action is a little bit different.
I think it's important to look at your manifesting practice as
a service to humanity. I think, for, at least from my
perspective, the way I interpreted some of the
teachings and still I do of into the laws, really do Vin.
The ancient teachings is that it seems to be very heavily focused
on the me and you know, what am I looking to get right?
If you've ever been in a real relationship where you felt like
somebody just wanted something from you.
Right? Like you just hanging out with
me because you want something. Right?
What do you what do you want? What do you want?
I think sometimes we treat the universal laws that way.
Like okay, what you got for me you know, what have you done for
me lately? And if you haven't done anything
for Then forget it. I'm not going to focus on you
anymore and that's not that's not the way the spiritual
teachings are. It's about having a relationship
without being attached to outcome and without having
conditions, it's like we put conditions on these laws that
influences, our relationship with energy.
So I flip it and say, manifesting and energy and
action. The way that I teach the
practices as a service to humanity, and how do Do I create
that service? Because when I move the energy
in my body and then I go through one of the cleanse practices and
there's each one lines up with the spiritual laws.
So I've four practices per law. I always always include the
benefiting Mother Earth, but every practice it's very
disciplined and may the energy that I'm cultivating today.
Serve everybody on the planet and I'm talking all living
beings. I'm talking all Organisms
animals, plants environment made this energy and flow serve every
single being on the planet. And that way we all benefit and
that to me is a service, right? So what people don't know about
the book is every practice includes really learning how to
connect to, what's the Rays of light and the Rays of light are
high vibrational frequencies and how do we change energy?
She we change energy while we change the brain neurons in the
brain and energy to light and through sound and through, you
know, these really anxious and qualities that we know.
Vibrate the way we changed vibration transform is with
vibration and you can't change vibration with thoughts.
I mean you can maybe a little bit but it won't last.
You know, my endless curiosity going to Deeper level a lot of
that interaction. As I'm kind of finding my
understanding of it is happening in our autonomic central nervous
system. As that system.
Takes our prefrontal cortex offline.
We're going into the amygdala, that just simply acts on those
for survivalist, acree sponses. Yeah, like flight fully shut
down. Yes.
Basically, you know where we're not being rational, we'll make
it simple? I think what's happening is
where We're so used to reactivity that if we become
desensitized to it, right? You even see people who are
teaching mindfulness out there and I'm watching.
And I'm going, isn't anyone not seeing that?
That's a high-level. I call the high levels of
reactivity, which nobody really benefits from that.
If you're losing it on social media, you know, basically how
do we, how do we keep patterns locked in our system?
Emotional reactivity. Me, well, you know, the memory,
that's that's what causes trauma to stay solidified in the body,
whether I'm watching you in a reactive State, whether I'm
having a reactive Ste. And by the way, the laws of the
universe, teach us this, the law of Oneness, says, how I respond
affects you, how you respond affects me.
We are one and therefore our practices have to be based on
Oneness and unity and connection.
And I That means learning to manifest for the we not the me
knowing, you will be taken care of, you will be blessed even
more. So by taking that approach many
regards way I'm relating to that is where resisting that energy,
you mentioned earlier that key role or element of remaining
vulnerable. Yeah, as we develop our ability
to embrace emotional vulnerability.
How does A surface, as a form of suppression resisting, the
energy that creates in many regards.
Our doubt. Yeah.
Well, when we resist a conversation, where resisting
energy, when we avoid a conversation, where resisting
energy, when we minimize our feelings around something, where
resisting movement of energy, when we manage someone else's
feelings, and emotion, we are resisting energy.
It's all basically what we're doing is, we're In back our
energy in action and our energy and action is how we manifest
again, the spiritual laws, teach us this.
So, so what do we do? Well, instead of resisting, we
turn to the laws for guidance, right?
And there's a lot of guidance there.
I mean there is I don't know if you have an example, you want to
share, but I mean, I think of the law of transmuted energy,
the lab transmuted energy says that I can transform energy, I
can't destroy it, but I can change it.
So if I go back to doubt, if I'm feeling doubt, All I have the
capacity to transform that into hope within minutes within
minutes and I do it all the time with people and they identify
that right away. I say, how do you feel hope, how
do you feel? I feel powerful.
I'm talking minutes and imagine if this were a regular practice
because we do need it to be consisting, that's the other
thing with manifesting, as I think, you know, we do the
vision board and then we okay. Now I'm going to go on with my
day and it's like, no, no, no, that's not what it was.
Spiritual practices were built from.
They were built from devotion, you know, think of it like when
someone decides to join the military, right?
Or when they decide to take on a career like being a nurse or
something. I mean, think of the devotion
that's behind that think of the level of commitment that is
required to go through the level of schooling to do the level of
training to have that discipline.
We need to have that level of commitment.
And discipline with manifesting. It is a little bit of a love
affair because it's it's joining with the spiritual laws and the
way I do it is I include the Rays of light because when the
laws are like the teaching, the Rays of light are the Masters.
So, they're overseen by spiritual Masters and
Archangels. And then again, the laws are
like our curriculum, right? What we're learning and when you
blend those together, there's a real Devotion there that needs
to happen in my opinion, to really make powerful changes on
the planet. And that's really where we're
at. It's not just about, I need
peace for me. I need peace around me when you
agree, right? Most definitely, perhaps an
example a little bit ago. Yeah, to me, I view that as a
form of shrinking or running away.
Resistive fleeing from that action.
Again and how sometimes, we're simply just fearful of learning
new things, new a phobia there. Again, I like going and finding
these kind of rare obscure things, for whatever reason that
helps me explain new. A phobia is just simply a fear
of new things, or learning new things for a change, huh?
Sometimes those systems are the thing we're afraid of, but at
the core, it's not even the system of the thing.
We're learning that Were afraid of it's just being fearful of
Letting Go and embracing that new opportunity to change.
I almost feel like it's about going to, what's familiar?
Yes. Sometimes we were afraid but
it's really, you know, it's unfamiliar and we prefer to go
to the familiar even if it's not serving us, at least it's
familiar. And I get that because, you
know, I grew up in a household with that was like that, you
know, it's Easy to, when you grow up in an environment that
is dysfunctional but it's familiar.
You know? I mean, it's why I could in some
ways it's a strength for me because I can hang out with
anybody. You know, I'm very comfortable
with people who are in trauma, right?
And love people, you hear about that a lot today.
People trauma bonding and things like that because it's familiar.
Yes, right. And actually calms you because
Like yeah, I know like we have that commonality and there's
there strengthen that there's there's something that you get
from that. But after a while you do need to
kind of break out of that, she'll a little bit.
So yeah, I think for going back because I can go to
self-sabotage and selfless and limitations and I do think that
sometimes we limit our abilities and manifesting, I think a lot
of times we are functioning in a way that's Relating to that and
so we perhaps don't overstep somebody's ability to relate to
their familiar. Sometimes that familiar
environment. Is that dare I say,
dysfunctional environment where the change is so constant that
kind of a inconsistent change, is your familiar and you do tend
to self-sabotage, hmm? Now bringing people up to that
vibration. How do we do then, step them
into that space? Case to the role where we feel
were searching here a little bit.
Yeah, so I guess what, I guess, what you're asking is, how do we
stop self sabotaging? We stop self sabotaging and step
into that, I care. So I'll go back.
That's what cleanse started. The seven steps of.
And in the book that you go through, I mean, we can, I can
answer that if you just sit up nice and tall and just take a
nice deep breath. So why don't we Just do a little
bit of moving. A little bit of energy here in
about three steps ahead of myself on that right now.
Wow, that's a question was there.
I was watching said, yeah, it's a great question and I think a
lot of people can benefit and the question is, how do I self
stuff if you are aware? Yeah, I do sabotage Myself by
go, you know, think of people that go back to the similar
relationships right there? Dating.
I'm the same person and a different body, right?
Or they're getting the same boss, but it's a different job
and they're like, man, how did I ended up here again, right?
How am I? Not is because the energy hasn't
changed just because you change jobs doesn't mean you change the
energy and that only happens inside of you.
So manifesting is an inside job. It's not an outside job, right?
And that's the shift people have to remember.
Yes. Great.
Again, put your vision board. I'd love to have this job.
I love and make this amount of money and travel dada, but be
careful. You're not focusing so much on
the outside that you're not changing energy on the inside,
because reactivity is all out here and peace and Harmony is
it's in here. So let's do it.
Let's sit up. Nice and tall and just tell your
head side to side, you know, just kind of move the energy a
little bit. It.
I don't really like to answer questions, if the energy without
moving it a little bit first, right?
And and so, the, do you have an example in mind, you have a
client or a friend or someone that self-sabotage is like what
how are you noticing that? I'm gonna draw back to a
specific episode because this was very profound to me, okay?
Because this specific individual yep, repetitively having sexual
Alt situations come up, addiction problems, come up a
number of other things that would continually arrives to the
point. Where, as we step through their
story, it seemed like a never-ending nightmare, it was a
never-ending nightmare. So I'm going to relate to that.
Yeah, well when you, when you talk sexual assault, you talk
addiction where I hear is someone who has a pattern of
putting themselves in situations where they feel powerless
Carlos, yes. Ray danger and danger.
Right? So that sounded familiar that's
a powerless nests, right? So that is what that pattern of
powerlessness feeling powerless feeling out of control, right?
And and I'm safe, right? What needs to be cleared in that
person? So let's just take a set of.
And again, we're going to make sure we as we're talking right
now and we're connecting to any Margie.
We want to make sure that we're connecting to anyone on the
planet who also is carrying a pattern of powerlessness and who
is having those symptoms. Come up because of that pattern,
that core feels like more of a core pattern.
So we want to acknowledge that and let's just sit up nice and
tall and let's just move a little hum energy together.
So we're going to inhale, we're going to hum and we're going to
inhale together and it's um that's just kind of move some
energy through a gentle hum that your whole body.
So if you're listening, go ahead and move that energy and what
I'm seeing and what I'm hearing in terms of and just gives
people a sense of how to just going to make sure I'm doing it,
right? I got to look at my own book.
Okay, now it is, this person needs to be aligned With the law
of giving and receiving the spiritual law of giving and
receiving and they don't know how to receive.
They don't know how to receive love, right?
They don't know how to receive praise.
They don't know how to take anything in make sense, because
the self-esteem would be pretty pretty low.
So, this person needs to really align themselves with the laws
of they're giving, they've given a lot.
But the problem is, is when you give whether it and they give
carelessly, they give without any sense of word, like they
treat themselves like their piece of crap, like, I don't
mean anything, I'm not worth anything therefore, it doesn't
matter what I put in my mouth, what happens to my body, it's
all it's a very much about self-worth, but the first place
to start would be with that law of giving and receiving again,
there's four practices there. And I would have them practice
that learning how to receive a lot of sadness, is what I'm
picking up on unresolved sadness, grief and it's very
tough when you're abused, you know.
And these are very, very deep and you have to hit the energy
level to be able to start to really get that feel it very
much in the heart area. So, I would take attack.
They need to really take a break from relationships for just give
some time to really learn how to receive.
I mean, and start small, like, just receiving the sun, you
know, receiving the the day because I'm feeling like people
who have our an addiction sexual assault and all that, you know,
your gear in frequencies that are these are the kinds of
frequencies where People don't want to live anymore.
I mean, if you're taking something to the point where you
could hurt yourself, that's really low, right?
And so this needs to be a lot of nourishment and the people
around this person. Need to know that will be
compassion and love. That will help us very difficult
because the community of addiction also talks about tough
love, right? This balance of had to Wade, but
it, we're not talking enabling we're talking about compassion.
And and so if you have someone you're dealing with, you have to
really get clear yourself. What is the difference between
enabling and having compassion? And that's your journey.
Stepping through with this individual, kind of dawned on me
that they kept talking about this pattern and their level of
familiarity with seeking certainty.
In that very disruptive nature that was comfortable and
familiar to them what was comfortable and familiar to them
was numbing? Yeah, not the relationship.
The pattern of being in a situation where you have to shut
your everything down numbing and people get that, they get that
if they've been bullied, you know, I mean there's just a lot
that happens and we don't want to give the people that are celt
us that much credit. Don't give him that much credit,
right? It's a pattern of numbing and
that in itself can kind of help you get back in the driver's
seat. Don't give them that much power
and credit. Over your situation like somehow
they've won. No no, no no.
It's your core pattern and probably a lot of times we
attract people with the same pattern of numbing.
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For many of us and certainty often paints a bleak and dark
outlook on the future. Casting a looming, cloud of
doubt and foreboding on how we perceive the possibilities in
our desired outcomes. And when we work to transform,
the Searing pain of doubt in a self-confidence, it often seems
like an insurmountable task, but you should know you're not
alone. There are many who've walked in
your shoes, and this guide will help you move forward in a way.
That allows you to authentically embrace all of your emotional
interactions in part 1, we discussed the many reasons why
people find uncertainty, so terrifying and how this fear of
uncertainty is closely related to doubt and anxiety.
This is something I frequently reflect upon myself.
What I've learned is that uncertainty, although perceived
or real can be an illusion yet when faced with difficult and
challenging circumstances, it's possible to embrace uncertainty.
D by turning doubt into hope and welcoming healthy fear.
Then turning it into a healthy self confidence.
Just like Emma. We can find our sense of
purpose, within the uncertainty. When we turn energy into action
Sherry Anna. When it comes to turning the
empowering energy of our emotions into definitive action,
rocks that regard. What we'll do?
You feel developing our inherent ability to welcome uncertainty
plays in the These processes of accepting and manifesting as we
evolve past this to welcome uncertainty again, I'm going to
go back to the law of giving and receiving and why I love energy
and action. There's a real imbalance there
and I would really connect through the practices, bring the
whole system. And how do we get our nervous
system back into balance? Light is a big way and that's
where the energy and action is unique to other practices.
I'm talking late from healing light and we start to remember.
This isn't just a brain thing. This is in the energy field.
This is in the aura. This is in perhaps genetic
stuff. We've got you know, there's a
lot going on here and for me just to tackle the brain.
So I would work with that law of giving and receiving and I would
really up receiving Once you start receiving more
uncertainty, won't be scary. So much of that interaction is
constantly, repetitively redundantly driven home, that
mindset, mindset mindset, but we neglect maybe sometimes to
Simply view that we are an embodied.
Being that doesn't even stop in this body.
We're just an antenna conducting all of that energy to me, you
know? Yeah, go big concept here.
I feel all of that funnels down from a collective knowing
everything that I have available to me, simply appears now all of
the knowledge and awareness of thoughts simply appears, I don't
demonize mine, I welcome them and love them.
I see that as a Divine. If I'm going to use that quote,
unquote phrase, Divine infinite gift, that just happens.
It just appears, I don't see a need to run from it.
No matter when it happens or how it happens.
I don't Objectively. Submit it to that kind of
torment and torture. Yeah, I know it's very powerful
and I can feel it when you're talking about it.
Now, you know, it's not just about words, I can feel your
energy and that's, that's the other cool part of when your
energy is an action. You get really, you know, like,
when you were just talking, like, I'm starting to get drawn
to you, right? Yeah.
And because not because of the words because I can feel it.
And all of a sudden you start to get drawn and guided it's like
oh my heart. Feels this to others in other
situation to where their energy is rolling, where the energies
and action and that's how you create that safety, okay?
But the have to be running your own energy.
First to, it's like a magnet right now, I'm just
automatically drawn and there are times people say things and
I'm like I am buying that I'm not drunk.
I don't care. How many followers do you have?
And you know, if I don't feel it energetically I don't follow it
no judgment and it's not to say one day I might not follow
because in that moment I'm just not feeling aligned but it's not
about. We're going to go beyond words
now and we're even going to go beyond actions and we're going
to start to navigate life through feeling our intuition.
Our Oceans and talking to change and those of us like you and I
who are really committed to learning and practicing.
We won't be so afraid, right? So anybody who chooses this
pathway? It's about getting skills
because things will happen, but you can be neutral about it,
right? You don't have to be in.
If you find, you're in high levels of reactivity, it just
means that you have something that needs to be cleared, get
your energy. G move in again and then move
forward, but don't move forward on blocked energy and don't try
to manifest on blocked energy. Either a lot of people do that
they're like oh my Energy's block, the made manifest right
or they what's most important is the quality of space that you
manifest from not where you're heading.
It's like the what is your soil and tend to that inner soil,
make it really nutrient rich and one of Ways we do that is by
processing our emotions and my downloading the light and really
understanding the spiritual laws and the guidance system.
So circling back and perhaps meeting others where they might
be in that progression, do you mentioned how sometimes our
emotional reactions are becoming inhibitive, the blocking us from
that or we have that perception that they're blocking us from
it. Aha.
Frame It That Way perhaps. Yeah.
So you call these emotional reactions control systems or
Management Systems in the book. I'm going to draw back to the
book here. Okay?
We're are ways that we consciously or unconsciously
utilize them as perhaps a coping mechanism.
I know, we might be drawing back a little bit to hopefully, meet
some people, some listeners throughout wherever this energy
travel. So let's look at that a little
bit. If we might, okay, That perhaps
pushes us back into that competitive model from that
frame of reference. What does that then?
Draw us into those avoidance behaviors of fight and flight
that become kind of a combative. I think I think comparison is
one of them. I think I'll get let's give an
example of how that could happen, right?
So a lot of people compare, right, or see this a lot on
social media, right, where people.
And a lot of our children are, you know, there's a lot of
Anxiety and depression out there, there's no doubt social
media is a huge contributor to that, you know, there's a
constant messaging of be better. Do better, do it?
Like me look like me, you know, you have to have your life look
a certain way in order to be happy, right?
And so we're being bombarded with that.
I have to look a certain way. You have to be, you know, rich
and famous. And if you're not then you know
you're not really doing so hot, right?
Kind of thing. And yet we know from research
and studies on people from other countries who have very little
or actually happier than us. So, so, in terms of what you're
asking and coping is really people coping with, what is that
light? How does that impact our
emotions when we're always around that kind of messaging,
right? So it inhibits us from ever
really feeling and then we have to manage the insecurity we have
To manage the doubt that you mentioned.
We have to manage the Judgment, right?
We have to manage this, the not feeling good enough kind of
thing and then you kick in, okay?
I don't feel good enough. I've got to do this, and I've
got to do that. And that's where coping
mechanisms, you know, how do I, how do I cope with these
thoughts? How do I cope with these
feelings? And my message is coping.
Mechanisms are great, but they have expiration dates, and I
know, Share that with you before, I don't believe in
long-term. Coping I believe coping is very
short term like I'm driving and I have to cope with traffic.
So I play my music and that allows me to feel calmer and
more present, not to go into a rage great.
But after you get out of that car and you get back to everyday
life, that coping mechanism has expired, and whatever came up
during that car ride. If it's still coming up, if If
you're going to your friend or neighbor and you're saying, oh
you know, there was so much traffic and it was so horrible
and I'm so sick of it and you're bitching and complaining or
you're just still thinking about it.
Well, that's because there's things that came up that need to
be processed emotionally and it's did the car ride cause it.
No, you already had it. It just highlighted it.
What I had hoped we could do. Here is draw our listeners into
kind of an either/or comparison. Okay, no, it's an area.
I'd try to help guide others to themselves.
You know where let's compare the two.
What about is what you have and what is where you're trying to
manifest or move toward? I'm thinking about energy.
Oh, Jeffrey Alan, how familiar are you with Jeffrey Allen?
And is whole working with your body energy?
He does this little exercise with people who struggle,
perhaps to feel that energy, who's hitting your hands, very
close together and silencing yourself and kind of waiting and
feeling and you, you start to feel That warmth, you start to
feel that energy moving between your hands and imagining dad,
actual energy to the point where, you know, you start to
feel it and connect with. Yeah, try to give that sense of
let's compare that energy. Yeah, so often where I
experienced people meeting that is in this kind of warrior
stance, we're battling fighting things, constantly seeking this
action, to move from it. But it's not an aligned action.
Well, let me let me ask you this and, and in terms of, if I were
to, in terms of manifesting, so you said, comparing a lot of
manifesting teaches you to focus on what you want, right?
I'm suggesting you focus on what you have, right?
The challenge is, you don't know what you have until you clear
your mind. So what you do have is what you
just pointed out is you have energy and you have an infinite
amount of it. It's endless, right?
And so, if I'm focusing on what I want, I'm not focusing on the
energy. I'm focusing it again, typically
on an endpoint and I'm not saying there's not value to
that. What I am saying is so, for
example, like let's say, is there something that you want to
Manifest. So manifest means bring
something into the physical. Could be an idea could be I
described it as energy and action manifesting but we'll use
the traditional definition would something that you want to
manifest something I want to make this.
Yeah, I'm gonna relate this. I have to be authentic.
I don't tend to step that far forward.
Okay? Because I feel living aligned in
my present moment when it wants to manifest.
It tells me when where why and how okay I'm not projecting on.
That's my experience of it, okay?
That energy. Like I said to me very often
comes as that download when it's relevant and will tell me when
it's relevant. Okay.
You're more intuitive. More.
What you're saying perhaps? Yeah, you know, if it look at Ya
subjectively qualifying and quantifying my skills assets.
Yep. I tend to be a more into it.
Yeah, to it morning and there's and there's Great Value to that.
That and there's also great value to being having some
specifics around what you're aiming for.
Yeah for instance let's write about this.
What are you aiming for in terms of in terms of manifesting?
There is evidence that we want to be a little bit clearer.
Now, do we stay there? No, it's I use what I'm aiming
for. As a stepping stone, not an
endpoint, that helps me understand the quality of energy
I need. Put into action.
So, what are you aiming for? So, let's look at this program
as an example, okay? Building that bridge for others,
that opens up that energy, that connects them with where those
blocks inhibit that flow. So you, you're aiming to build a
bridge to continue to be a resource.
Yes. Okay, so we'll say continue to
be a resource for people. People are you saying to build
their skills and to unblock them cellulite on those skills and
unblock themselves? Shine a light.
Got it on the skills. I'm just writing it down as I
was helping right thing and unblock.
Fantastic. See how everybody listening,
doesn't. That feel nice like, I'm feeling
the energy of it. I'm like, you know, I feels
really good. It feels like you.
That is definitely where you're Ain't right.
Very purposeful continue to be a resource for people to shine a
light on their skills or their block.
So that's what you're looking to do.
So now let me tap into my energy and action, I'm going to do a
shortcut around it before purposes of being on the audio.
If you were to close your eyes right now and sit up, nice and
tall for stretch your neck, a little bit, get the energy
moving. Just Kind of move your head side
to side. Good.
Roll your shoulders up back and down.
So yes, we use the body to increase those Sensory neurons,
right? So we can kind of tune in more
because R, we do have that intuition about us but we need
Sensory neurons turned on Good. And then, just just say this out
loud being a resource. We are outsourced for others,
makes me feel for others makes me feel and then just breathe.
Then And breathe out. And breathe in and breathe out.
So, being a resource for others, makes you feel and you're
breathing in and you're breathing out and he's just
letting letting himself feel that, right?
She's just feeling that and we're not talking about it, just
do one more breath. Being a resource for other say,
it again, makes me feel. Inhale.
So he's focusing on what he has rights.
Not like he's drifting off and what he wants is already a
resource for others, right? Just looking to continue that
and to strengthen that. So let's do a little less,
you're a little hum and there's different variations and energy
and action, but we'll do this one.
So we're going to inhale. Not a little movement of energy.
Soften your body. All right, so if I were to say
to you first color that pops in your mind right now, what is it?
Indigo. Indigo, love it.
It is one of my core colors. Okay?
Love it Indigo. So let that let that clothes for
you, Indigo and energy and action teaches us about the law
of polarity. Polarity is, you know, it's Not
a bad thing and it just means, you know, there's lessons it's a
very much less and bass like I wouldn't know light if I didn't
know dark, right? I wouldn't know.
Love if I didn't know hate, but you're just not supposed to hang
out in one area, right? So want to make sure you line up
with the law of polarity and we're going to let that
beautiful indigo color come through.
I'm going to take some really receive those qualities.
Again, I want to make sure that we and we offer this to Mother
Earth. With anybody on the planet, who
is also looking to be a resource to shine light on others, and to
be more in harmony with the law of polarity, if you're feeling
like, you're really kind of hovering in one area, a little
bit longer than you'd like to want to help line you up, or
maybe been around somebody who's been hovering that you've picked
up on that, so just kind of take that through good.
So now here's the cool part. I'm actually opened up my book
for This we want in order to continue to be.
There's four things that I'd like you to focus on to continue
to be a resource and a Shining Light, we want you to focus on
peace, the vibration of Peace, particularly anchoring and peace
so it's one thing to have peace. It's a whole nother ballgame to
Anchor in peace. All right.
That will be the intention if you can really learn how to
Anchor in peace, find that Refuge find that Solitude bring
balance to your life by anchoring and peace.
That is what's going to help all of this manifesting to come into
a little bit of a higher state that you're looking for.
Does that make sense completely? Lee rather than focus on the
outcome energy and action teaches us.
It gives us the tools and they're in the book that he's
going to really find that that that if he can really dive into
that which you are not somebody else's piece and we often do
that, especially as parents. Oh, when my kids are happy, I'm
happy. Great or when my wife is happy.
I'm happy. No, no, no more, no more.
When everybody's okay, I can have peace no more.
That mentality needs to go. So, connecting with that.
And this is very ironic. This is not mandated in any way.
I wish I may take a snapshot of this and put it up on the show.
Notes on our do we have to De tousser feel like it but next
question you know as we attuned to that was simply going to be
how might the law of polarity allow us to perhaps flip the
script or freeing and transmuting, some of this
resistance. We feel inside that is the same
resistance that often leads to our Self Doubt.
Hmm. So what I do is I yeah, that
inner peace. Yeah.
So there's vibrations Is that are looking to be downloaded
that's why we get out of balance with the laws.
And so what I've done is, how people to know what are they for
you. If it was a real anchoring of
peace, I do feel that you're, you know, that indigo is all
about helping the suppressed, right?
People who feel suppressed, and that's kind of what you said.
I want to help others on block, right?
I want to help people that are Price right now.
Not feeling like they have the resources of the sperm, maybe,
they can't afford them and that would make sense that you would
be drawn to Indigo to me because that carries qualities of
helping the suppressed. So you really want to embody
that you're really up service. And I do recommend that when
people are manifesting again, we're going to go back to the
beginning of the program. It's a vez to humanity to
manifest and when you flip the script in that way, you will
line with the laws. With that, I just kind of got
lost in that moment of Peace. Thank you for calling me back.
Sometimes that piece is that action of inactivity?
Which in and of itself is an action.
Yeah, in its polarity ironic Going to the law of polarity
tells us, you're gonna have discomfort but you have
discomfort. So you're more able to recognize
Comfort. Like, these are all
opportunities. It's not that we're not going to
brush up against uncertainty again, right?
But you're not meant to hang out there but just know, those are
the laws that work. They that's how you're just
ready to deepen that experience. So, Yeah, you're going to have
moments where like you know my daughter I was just talking to
her last night we were texting and she was frustrated because
she's not getting a lot of hours at work and she's run to pay
things like that and she's panicking.
You know, how am I going to get this income?
And the old me would have been. Oh, don't worry.
I'll get you know, I'll give you money, it'll all be okay.
But now that I've been manifesting in this way, I just
say to her, you know, look this is an Opportunity, when you have
that empty space there it's just the universe's way of saying,
you know, you're supposed to focus on something else right
now. And perhaps this is a chance for
you to focus on some of the other things that you've been
pondering, you know, some of the dreams, some of your desires
that need some attention, some, you know, she's got some things
that you'd like to look into look at it as a blessing that
you have this space you know, and so it's okay.
You know, when there's that, go into that uncertainty, but it's
there for you. So trust that everything is
happening for you. You don't need to suffer, you
don't need to sit in it. It doesn't mean things aren't
working for you. The laws are always at work,
they never sleep, and it's just most important to get to know
all the laws. Not just the Law of Attraction.
So often when we move into those resistive Energies, We aligned
with some of those more chaotic State.
We manifest some of those more chaotic States, moving out of
those chaotic State and embracing that piece inside.
How then might we regain our Rhythm or Empower ourselves to
launch out of that state? Well, I think that's why I have
the logarithm and the book, right?
And there's practices to align you with the logarithm.
And if that's the law, Now that you're out of alignment with,
you know, you'll be drawn to that.
I think once you get to know the law.
So what I do every morning is I actually have my book and I
said, and I've memorized most of it.
So I will every morning take a moment because emotions need to
be processed every day and I will go through the cleanse.
So it's a seven step process. We didn't do all seven steps.
They move very fluidly together, and I will intuitively.
Scrubber, you know where do I need to line with the law, what
law is looking for my attention? How can I connect with this law
and the laws, they will align you.
You know, they will do that effortlessly and then you just
have to trust it. So if you're meant to line up
with the law Rhythm, then that will show up for you and your
cleanse practice, but like your friend with the addiction and
sexual assault know that you could easily say lot of Rhythm.
But I got love giving. I'm receiving for that one
right? And sometimes you work with one
law for a while. Sometimes I work with lung one
law and I'm like oh this law again like I'm not lined up yet,
right? Yeah I'm already making
assumptions where to step people through rather than aligning
with energy. Yeah it's a good illustration
yeah I'm jumping six steps ahead which I tend to do sometimes.
My energy likes to lie, you know what can I say?
Well, you have a, you have a nice heart and you know, you
have a beautiful heart and that's what happens is.
We want to help people but sometimes you know, people do
need to get to know one law for a while.
Just like my daughter, of course, I want to help her but
it's okay to say they, you know, this is how the universe works
honey. Any, you know, you're you're
imagining that your stock but you're not stock, right?
And just giving that the and how do I know that?
Because the laws tell us that, right?
And yes, you're in uncertainty but perhaps that that's exactly
what you need right now is to be in this space of curiosity and
kind of develop some other aspects of yourself and trust
that those aspects are those vibrations those Qualities are
helping you to manifest your desires.
And lingering again. Okay.
Lingering is just so, so hopefully, yeah, reach the end
of my line today, and I'm finding myself in this.
Infinite, what next, and I'm alright with the uncertainty.
So what might we add to the Sherry?
And I'm going to just get out of my own way and surrender, the
floor. Let me just check in here for
the Of the laws. Everybody?
Just put your hand on your heart.
Take a nice deep breath unless you're driving, of course.
So let me just, yeah, just check in.
And so, you know, I think whenever what I want to leave
and kind of where we started with this idea of uncertainty or
doubt that is that just as means, like self-confidence and
is looking to really develop right.
And also, so look at it that way and know that actually.
The law of attraction is all about confidence.
In my opinion, that's one of the lessons we get from The Law of
Attraction. People get all excited when they
attract something like yeah, I did that, I did that right?
They feel better, like we look at, I did, right?
That's because the laws designed to give us confidence when we're
in alignment with it, and that can happen in a number of ways,
but I just want to leave everybody that if certainty will
come. Um, from that confidence and
confidence comes from being able to download the vibration.
The Law of Attraction will give you confidence that something no
one tells you it carries the qualities of it and also the
practices that I have for you, if you go through them, you will
get confidence. I promise, you just have to be
consistent and you have to be devoted because they're overseen
by spiritual Masters. And they will show up for you
bigger than life every time. Sometimes that confidence is
found by just stepping into that quiet space inside and embracing
that piece with love, light Harmony and allowing the energy
to be what it might be. Yeah, we got it.
That's where I'm drawn to at least.
I feel it down those steps and how we relate with those various
laws Yeah. Can our listeners go to connect
with this book? I feel this is such a yank
inside. Hey, I haven't seen anything
relatively like it yet. I haven't either for years.
I've been saying there's a lot of, there are a lot of theories
and a lot of systems and yeah, well tend to run from that.
So they have boldly stepping up to that task.
For sure. It's a, it's a shift, right?
That focus on what you have, you have confidence.
Just so, you know, everyone has company.
It's just, it's just maybe not highlighted.
Yeah, you know, it's, we have everything that we need but in
terms of where Sherry and a boil.com is my website, you can
get energy and action any bookstore, you know, it is on,
I'm not sure when this comes out your episode but the It'll
launch is May 2nd if you preorder it off my website I do
have a free video there. It's called by over focusing on
the Law of Attraction doesn't work.
I believe it or not. I did not talk about it on the
show today so you can get that free video.
If you go to my website and you buy it there, you can at least
get the video right now and then your book will come in the mail.
So I know that little line that. So that really helps you focus
and boost that energy of attractions.
Yeah I truly truly want to thank you for your love energy and
like every every time I connect with you I'm Walking on Air.
So thanks you're so sweet. I think he's gay.
Namaste, your Pure Heart to all your listeners.
Thank you. Let's do it again soon.
Thank you. When it comes to addressing
uncertainty in forming, a new relationship with our emotions,
give your mind to rest and let your energy do the work for you
then. Certainty can be a natural part
of life and learning to embrace it can lead to personal growth
and development. When faced with doubt, it's
important to shift the perspective from resistance to
curiosity this mindset allows us to explore different aspects of
ourselves and feels personal. Transformation by accepting
uncertainty as individuals. We can move Beyond, fear and
hesitation allowing us to confidently.
Pursue our goals, our objectives, and our desires, in
short, we turn energy into action.
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